Like many in our country I have been amazed by the stories of the men who gave their lives to protect the women in theater nine nearly two weeks ago. It has caused many to stop and reflect on the nature of manhood and the inherent desire in men to protect women in a moment of crisis. And many would say that is a good thing. We are thankful for the heroes, the protectors, and the men who gave the greatest sacrifice in the face of tremendous danger.
The Bible and the Pain of Infertility (a Resource)
I'm pretty sure I have read this article at least five times since I first learned about it a little over a year ago. I have a number of good friends who have read it too, so I know that for some readers this is probably not a new resource. But I have found it extremely helpful. If you are not struggling with infertility yourself, but are close to someone who is, this article provides a clear window into what the infertile person might be feeling and going through.
Thoughts on the Parade of Nations
Like I said on Friday, I really like the Olympics. While I know there are mixed opinions about the opening ceremonies, it is honestly one of my favorite parts of the games. Yes, it drags on a bit. Yes, it can be difficult to interpret at times. But there is something about the parade of nations that gets me every time. I will most likely never visit the majority of the countries who are represented at the Olympics, but for just a brief moment I get to learn a little about them. And I love that. I love seeing the faces of the people from obscure or underrepresented countries. They are so proud. They are so excited. They appreciate the moment in ways we Americans will probably never realize.
Friday is for....the Olympics are coming!
For as long as I can remember, the Olympics have always been a staple of my summer. Every four years everything stops and I am glued to the television, ready to cheer on the great USA. When I was a kid, I had more time to watch because I was home during the summer. Now that I am a teacher, I am back to watching the coverage during the day as well. To say that we are excited would be a huge understatement. We cannot wait!
Why I Teach and Write
The school that I teach at assigned every teacher a book to read over the summer. One huge benefit of teaching at a Christian school is that they can assign us Christian books to read. We had the option of choosing between two books, so I chose John Piper's Think. When I went to Bethlehem, one of the advantages of being a member was that we received his newest book as a token of appreciation for freeing him to write. I must say, I miss those days. I'm fairly behind on my Pastor John library! So I was really excited to have the opportunity to read Think.
I Want it All
There has been a lot of talk lately about whether or not women can have it all, and by all people usually mean work full time as a mother. But all this talk about what a woman can or cannot do in her various seasons of life can be applied to any age, any marital status, and any amount of children in the home. A recent Forbes article states that young women today don’t feel as inclined towards leadership because of fear of failure. They have been told their entire lives that they can have it all, and unfortunately they have heard that they must be it all. The author says:
God is On His Own Timetable
True confession: I am an impatient person living in an impatient age. This does not work well when I stop to realize that God’s timetable is often much different than mine. Immediate for him is not immediate for me. For God a day is like a thousand years. That’s a long time for a person who wants things to happen in minutes, not millennia. And I don’t think I am alone in my desire for the immediate. In this digital age, our impatience is even more pronounced.
Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Book Review
As a marriage and family teacher, I am always looking for helpful resources on a biblical understanding of marriage, purity, and sex. That's why I was really excited when I learned about this new book by Gerald Hiestand and Jay Thomas, Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach.
My writing elsewhere
Why Jesus Isn't Your Boyfriend: A Christian Critique of Dating God (for Her.meneutics)
Mourning with Those Who Mourn on Mother's Day (for Her.meneutics)
Mourning the Death of Family Friendly TV (for Her.meneutics)
Love the Church (for Boundless)
Co-workerlationships (for Boundless)
Interview with Nancy Guthrie (for Her.meneutics)
The Kate Middleton Baby Watch and Why We Shouldn't Participate (for Her.meneutics)
A Christian Response to Gay Bullying (for Her.meneutics)
Sugar Daddies and Abba Father (for Her.meneutics)
Don't Waste Your Infertility (for The Gospel Coalition)
Jackie O and Complementarians (for The Gospel Coalition)
Confessions of a Recovering Feminist (for The Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood)
Fearfully and Wonderfully Made in a Fallen World (for The Gospel Coalition)
An Interview with Mary Kassian (for The Gospel Coalition's Book Review site)
Book Reviews
Give Them Grace by Elyse Fitzpatrick and Jessica Thompson (for the Christianity Today Women's blog)
By His Wounds You are Healed by Wendy Horger Alsup
Naked Spirituality by Brian McLaren
Half the Church by Carolyn Custis James
Manning Up by Kay Hymowitz
The Undistracted Widow by Carol Cornish
A Way with Words by Christin Ditchfield
Surviving the Loss of a Child by Elizabeth Brown
A Theology of James by Christopher W. Morgan
Trusting What a List Can't Tell You
In college I had a list. You probably know the one I’m talking about. It was the list. The list that promised me I could (and would) find the man of my dreams. The list that held every quality I desired in a husband. The list that I tucked away for that special day—the day I met him and we lived happily ever after.